Book of Memories for Basdeo Balgobin

Story shared: First Xmas

Wed, 27 Dec 2017 04:03:50 EST

Missing your happy face and spontaneous response at gift giving. Thank you for all the childhood to adulthood Christmases spent together Dad, thank you. Merry Christmas !!

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Wed, 27 Dec 2017 03:16:15 EST

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Tue, 12 Sep 2017 08:13:14 EDT

Bal's father and brother

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Tue, 12 Sep 2017 08:03:43 EDT

Handsome Balgobin

Story shared: Resting Place

Tue, 12 Sep 2017 07:15:06 EDT

It's May 20th 2017 6:30 am. This day knowingly was going to be difficult for us having to say good by as we embark on a course for Cape Cod. We're all exhausted both mentally and physically. I am unable to close my eyes wanting not to miss any part of this day. Awake I am haunted by my thoughts of you Bal and a bit unsettled by the thought of holding your ashes. Not present when the family picked up his ashes and then taken to several places one being Aqueduct racetrack and McDonald. Weird as it is I understood it's them showing how much he was loved and will be missed, a last hurrah. Reminiscing of the days past when you were younger full of life, unselfish sacrifices you undergo to make this family happy, surpass what was expected. We arrived at our scheduled meeting place. We all took pictures of each other posing with his remains uttering words of sincere absence and love. It was not long before we were all greeted by Captain Robert and Jacob Khol and were then given the okay to go aboard. We marveled at the size and beauty of the Bay Spirit. I couldn't help thinking about how happy our father will be. We were briefed and told it would be 30 minutes ride to the final resting place. As we arrived our priest performed the final ceremony and were then asked to take a handful of ashes to sprinkle into the Sea. As I was called upon a sudden calmness entered my body and as I reached and grabbed a handful of ashes I had nothing but love for the man we called Dad, father, Bal, Balgo, Sunny Boy and husband. I didn't want to let go then it happened ashes to sea which felt so good almost like he was with us saying goodbye and he's in a better place. What an amazing and beautiful site of ashes and flowers rocking back and forth in a sea of slow rolling waves that do not break. As I watched my family reactions with tearful eyes they also appeared to be at peace. We stood and steared upon the site untill it became minuscule then disappearing. We then looked at each other without saying a word it was understood this was the right decision a fitting final resting place for the Cremated Remains of Basdeo Balgobin have been Committed to the Sea. From your Loving family to our Raja Bal.

Story shared: Basdeo Balgobin , AKA: Sunny Boy

Tue, 09 May 2017 08:37:32 EDT

There are no words to describe how deeply grateful and proud we are for having you as our Father and a Loving Husband . This is noting short of a miracle by God who has lifted the burden of pain and suffering you once experienced. We honor today and always your strength, courage, love and the will you displayed during your hospital stay. When doctors said that you were slowly deteriorating and we should think about how to transition to the next stage, you laughed at their conclusion and comments. You were holding on for your family giving us time needed to slowly come to terms with what was about to transpire . What more can you ask of a father who's ultimate sacrifice which was that of his life for his family. You're truly a very special man and father sent by God to take care of this family. Now that your work is done here on earth. God called, you answered heaven bound to be at his side . Someday we'll all be together again till that day may your journey be filled with love, happiness, great and glorious adventures. This isn't farewell or goodbye, for in the book of life when one chapter ends another begins. Great is the power of God and what you can accomplish when you place your faith in him. God in Heaven we ask this day that you keep our father and Husband Basdeo Balgobin at your side always.

Story shared: Days

Tue, 09 May 2017 08:05:52 EDT

In tears we saw you sinking, we watched you slowly fade away. Hearts heavy almost broken. You fought so hard to stay with us. But when we saw you sleeping peacefully without pain no one to poke or probe. We could not wish you back to suffer that again. Our Balgo a kind gentle soul on earth walking amongst men honoring , loving, cherishing and respecting all. Missing you comes in waves, tonight I'm drowning. Loving Images of him forever burnt in my mind I'll carry till my days end.

Story shared: Life

Tue, 09 May 2017 07:37:25 EDT

Life: How is life measured? Is it by all the material things you own or by the love , virtues and respect for all. This story is about Basdeo Balgobin who displayed all these qualities . As a little boy he juggled chores, school and taking care of his younger siblings. As he grew older his schooling was left in the distance. Now faced with a job working for pennies he made sure his family was taken cared of, providing life necessities. He accomplished so much with so little and overcome every obstacle, never to be broken. Now married with 5 children his love and dedication was in full blossom. There was never a want or need which he couldn't fulfill. He provided , nurtured , give us values and moral. His love for Ganesh, Shiva, Hunaman, Durgha and all the gods and goddess was unwavering. You didn't only show us how much you love life and the full measures of sacrifice , you gave meaning to life. "He couldn't bring himself to hurt anyone or anything this included the minuscule creature".In your last day you were still teaching and preparing us for the next phase allowing us time to come to terms with your departure. Thank you for showing us how to embrace the gift life and everything else that comes with good and bad. Our Loving Bal.

Condolence From Dianne Anuradha, Mitra, Bryan, Chameraj, Bobby's

Mon, 08 May 2017 08:10:27 EDT

Jai Shri Krishna Dearest daddy, In memory of an amazing, loving, one of a kind man. You were God gift to us. A blessing to have in our lives. We would forever carry you in our heart. You have gone home to a different world. Love you dearly daddy Na jaayate 'mriyate' vaa kadaachin naayam bhuthva bhavithaa na bhooyah: |ajo nithyah saasvato ' yam puraano na hanyate' hanyamaane ' sareere' || The spirit is neither born, nor does it die at anytime.333 it does not come into being or cease to exist. It is unborn, eternal, permanent and primeval. The spirit is not destroyed when the body is destroyed. Tons of love, Hugh's & kisses Your loving wife Buelah & children/ Chameraj, Dianne, Bryan, Mitra, Shastri, Dalit and all the rest at home. Om

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Sun, 07 May 2017 12:59:19 EDT